How To Adopt A Child Without Father's Consent

if you’re still struggling with consent,just imagine instead of initiating sex, you’re making them a cup of tea.you say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?” and they go “oh my god, i would love a cup of tea! thank you!” then you know they want a cup of tea.if you say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?” and they're like “um i’m not reallysure…” then you can make them a cup of

How To Adopt A Child Without Father's Consent, tea or not, but be aware that they might notdrink it, and if they don’t drink it then – then and this is the important part – â don’tmake them drink it. just because you made it doesn't mean you are entitled to watchthem drink it. and if they say “no thank you” then don’tmake them tea. at all. just don’t make them

tea, don’t make them drink tea, don’tget annoyed at them for not wanting tea. they just don’t want tea, ok?they might say “yes please, that’s kind of you” and then when the tea arrives theyactually don’t want the tea at all. sure, that’s kind of annoying as you've gone toall the effort of making the tea, but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea.they did want tea, now they don’t. some people change their mind in the time it takesto boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk. and it’s ok for people to changetheir mind, and you are still notâ entitled to watch them drink.and if they are unconscious, don’t make them tea. unconscious people don’t wanttea and can’t answer the question “do

you want tea” because they're areâ unconscious.ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea, and they said yes,but in the time it took you toâ boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk theyare nowâ unconscious. you should just put the tea down, make sure the unconscious personis safe, and this is the important part again – don’t make them drink the tea. theysaid yes then, sure, but unconscious people don’t wanttea.if someone said yes to tea, started drinking it, and then passed out before they’d finishedit, don’t keep on pouring it down their throat. take the tea away and make sure theyare safe.â  becauseâ unconscious people don’t want tea. trust me on this.if someone said “yes” to tea around your

house last saturday, that doesn't mean thatthey want you to make them tea all the time. they don’t want you to come around unexpectedlyto their place and make them tea and force them to drink it going “but you wanted tealast week”, or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going “but you wantedtea last night”. if you can understand how completely ludicrousit is to force people to have tea when they don’t wanttea, and you are able to understandwhen people don’t want tea, then how hard is it to understand it when it comes to sex?whether it’s tea or sex, consent is everything. and on that note, i am going to make myselfa cup of tea.